Almost 3 Months!
Sto diventando Italiana! I am becoming Italian, and I love it! I do things the Italian way without even thinking. It's hard when I think of something that we do in Seattle and continue to think of it as normal reunite, or my culture, because it isn't anymore! I eat like an Italian, I clean constantly like an Italian, I blow dry my hair right after I get out of the shower like an Italian, I don't go barefoot in the house like an Italian, I talk with my hands like an Italian, I never use my seatbelt like an Italian, I don't recycle or compost like an Italian (a habit I will break as soon as possible), I go to the villa every Saturday night like an Italian, I eat pasta for lunch everyday of the week like an Italian..and the list continues. But these little habits aren't what make a home for a foreigner, its the fact that I am THINKING like an Italian. I hardly ever compare my two cultures now, for the most part I take the norms of Mesagne as the norms of the world. Its hard now to think of things any other way. I miss certain things about the Seattle culture, but nothing too much that I won't get back next year.
I've realized something wonderful, that most aspects of culture that you want, whether it comes from India, Italy, or Issaquah, you can bring it into the home and family you make for yourself. I can't wait to make myself a home somewhere in this big diverse world!
Ok I'm getting off topic. How about I tell you what I've been doing lately. School has been really regular, without any strikes (lame), but today I didn't have school cause its a holiday, and today most all families here decorate their houses for the holidays. So I've been calling it the "Decorate Your House Christmasy Holiday".
I've been really busy the last two or three weeks with school and friends and I love always having something to do, whether it's studying, hanging out with friends, or studying with friends, its all good for me!
Sunday I went to Lecce, my favorite city so far, with one of my best friends here Bice and her family, including their adorable little dog Margo:) It was decorated festively and was beautiful! But I realize I really need to do some Xmas shopping, which I will so this Saturday with my friend Nora from Norway.
Im going to have my first sleep over in three months on Saturday with Nora, so I'm super excited!

People (my mom) keeps commenting on how bad my grammar is getting, which I did not realize, but I'm sorry if it really is that bad.

Ok I said I would write something in Italian.. Here we go!
Ho stanca e voglio dormire perche' ho mangiata troppo sta sera al baptesimo.
The first part is more just playing off a joke my friend and I have that the only thing I know how to say is "Im hungry" and "Im tired" because Im always one of those, either hungry or tired haha.
Okay I must go now, and I leave you with gratitude for your support and many baci!
Kali

Good morning, day or evening to whoever is reading this! This are going just wonderfully here and I want everyone to know that! It's been a little while since I've written so I'll try to catch up a bit, I believe I last wrote about Rome.
I've been getting a lot of questions about whether my school is still on strike and I'd like to make it clear that schools go on strike here for one day at a time, they are very organized about it. So yes, I have been going to school all the regular days for about that last month now, haven't missed a day! I'm really starting to get the hang of school here, I hardly even think of the fact that I go to school on Saturdays anymore, it's so normal. I'm just getting really into the groove:) I've stopped comparing the two cultures as much and am just accepting things a lot easier, however there are still things I don't think I will ever get used to.
The language is really coming along. I've discovered this really cool thing now, that when I think back on a conversation I had with someone I don't remember whether they were speaking English or Italian, even though they were obviously speaking Italian cause hardly anyone speaks English here. I'm pushing myself more and more and trying to find more efficient ways for my speaking to get better. Because even though I'm understanding most everything I am still uncomfortable with speaking when put on the spot. I find myself speaking too fast so my head can't keep up with the translation then I stumble on the words, get embarrassed and just stop. So I need to speak slower. Its better to be more correct then to sound more confident...right?
On the other hand, my English is getting worse! I'm forgetting words and having to speak slower to keep up. Everything is just so slow! Mom you'll probably be happy with it when I get home haha.
I had a spectacular day today cause my cousin Rashaad, the son of my dad's sister stopped by to visit me for a few hours! It was perfect! Most of our time we spend trying to get him on his next train but before he got some homemade Italian cooking from my host mom and I think he liked it:) It was great seeing some family and being able to speak English fluently, but again I noticed that my speaking ability was a little off. I also noticed the fact that I was using my hands A LOT! for the common mannerisms here and felt very Italian, which was kinda exciting! Haha. We took the train from Mesagne to Brindisi where he took a train to Rome and I went back home to Mesagne. I liked the feeling of being on my own and for once being the one who had the upper hand with the language. I liked the feeling of having the responsibility to take us around.
For Thanksgiving I made diner for my host family and some extended family, a total of about 17 people. At first I was really intimidated but my host mom helped me and we got all the cooking done with a few hours to spare! We made chicken (she made chicken), sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, green beans, bread, and I made a mighty delicious apple pie:) Then they added in a ton a cheese and meats, making it an Italian style Thanksgiving!
Tomorrow I have what is called the "Beep test" which everyone tells me is the worst possible thing is the world which scares me. People skip school on the days we have to do it. Two days ago I was in a class that had just done it and two girls were close to throwing up and were laying on the tables. Basically what we have to do is touch the opposite wall before the beep. We start off walking and end sprinting from wall to wall. I still don't completely understand but I'll tell you guys how it goes!
Okay well I have to leave you now!
Always peace and love everyone! And know that I love you all and appreciate your support this year greatly!
Love Kali
P.s. I like Noahs Idea of writing my posts partly in Italian now, so expect that next time. <3

थे अर्तिस्तिक मिन्ड्स ऑफ़ रोमा!

Ok if your wondering why the title is in Hindi I'll let you know I have no idea why. My computer just got a funny idea to write in Hindi from now on! Good luck trying to find out what this post will be about:)
The artistic minds of Roma! There! I gave it away!
Well as many of you know, I recently returned from Rome with my Italian family! It was very nice, raining and inspiring! The city part reminded me a lot of all the other big cities I've been too, New York, London, Paris, big, with a lot diversity of people (which I've missed a ton!) and pretty dirty haha. I'll tell you my favorite part right away, I ATE CHINESE FOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the most exciting event since I've been here! You may think I'm insane for missing Chinese food while I'm in Italia! The country with the best food! But all I can say is that, coming from Seattle where there is every food you can think of, and I eat most of them, its been difficult for me to have a strict diet of only Italian food for the last 2 months and for the nest 8! So yea, it was really good Chinese food too:) Then my host mom was super sweet and saw how much I liked it and went out and bought me spring roles and Indian and Chinese rice making things, which were all really yummy!
Okay now here comes my rant of how beautiful the art was!
Oh my god! There is no way I could capture the feeling or the passion I saw in the bodies and faces of the statues, or the realty of the painted faces, the power in the horses muscles, and the brilliance of the architecture.. I was mesmerized every moment I walked through the streets, for there was history everywhere! Like the colleseo, it was just so grand and graceful, but at the same time rugged and strong, I loved picturing all the people who had been here to appreciate it, when it was first built for gladiators and the millions of tourists and movie makers, etc. who had come to see one of the most famous buildings in the world. And to think that most of this magic was all in dedication to God, all through history men, women, and children have done miraculous things for this man they have never seen, and I was able to see some of the results of this dedication! I might not completely agree with the motivation but all I know is that what I saw in Rome makes this world an even more beautiful place and I hope everyone could at least appreciate the mastery and history a fraction of how I feel about it!
This trip just made me even more interested in art history then I already was (close to obsessed).
Then there were the musicians, who actually made me think I was in Paris a little bit with their accordion music. At one piazza there was a jazz band that I was taking photos of and the man tipped his hat to me for the picture, which absolutely made my hour! Haha!

Well ciao for now!
Much love and thanks,
Kali!

So I've been thinking a lot about what I want to do in my future and it's complicating to keep it all in my head so I decided to write it down here so you can all give me some input! So please do! Give me as many ideas, information, pointers, and warnings as you can think of! Here is goes.
- i will finish my year here in Italy and learn Italian the best I possibly can.
-Once I get the hang of Italian I'll start looking at French, just to get some basics because it is a beautiful language and is more widely spoken then Italian.
-I'll get the information I need for my possible Senior Project I am thinking of doing that I'll explain later on.
-I'll return to Seattle and start working as soon as possible, before I return I will try to find a job, maybe you Seattle folks can help me find one! B&O possibly...
-Start senior year and continue working part time to save up for traveling in my year off and for university.
-Senior Project: I'm thinking of doing a compare and contrast thing about teenagers all around the world and they're ideas, thoughts, beliefs, hopes and so on, focusing on Italy because I know it best, but also get other information other ways (this is where I could use some ideas, where is somewhere I could get in contact with other teenagers straight from them?) I will also get information from the other AFS students with me in Italy since they are from all over. But maybe I'll do something more specific to kids who have done exchange and how that effects there lives, now and later on. I kind of like that idea because then I could talk to people my age and find other people who did it when they were younger (like members of my family). With both of these ideas I could do my volunteer work with AFS.
-NEXT will be summer and I'll continue working and maybe I'll be able to go on the trip my friends and I have been wanting to go on together to California maybe, but I don't know if I'll have the money.
-I'll find a way to become a resident of California, or whichever state I choose to go to college in. I hope I'll be able to get one or both of my parents to move there, because after this year I kinda want to keep them close enough that I can see them regularly. Then if they do I can say I live with them and become a resident, that's how it works right? After I "live" there a year I become a resident? Then I get the cheaper price for university...?
-I think I will stay in Seattle for the first six months of my year off and stay living with a family member. I'm thinking to stay in Seattle because I will hopefully be able to keep the same job and I will maybe have a better position that pays more at this job then if I started over in California.
-I will have to find something else to do in these months because working isn't enough for me, maybe I could volunteer somewhere (any ideas for the things I'm interested in? Something that would benefit my career of education and child aid).
-I will apply for college to start in the fall of 2013, I am very interested in UC San Diego, to study international studies and education.
-IF I have saved up enough money I will go on the trip through Europe I am planning with my friends, to return to all their cities they lived in during this year abroad to visit our families and friends there, but that depends strongly on my position with college and how much I'm going to have to pay, because it's EXPENSIVE!
-Then comes what I'm really excited for! My trip to India with Jordan, which is basically all planned out. We are still trying to solidify the dates, to leave at the best time there. We will be working on a farm founded by Vandana Shiva, if you don't know who she is she is a miraculous woman and here is the site link for more information http://www.navdanya.org/home. We intend to volunteer there for about 3 or 4 months. It is a very good program, all we have to do is pay for our travel there and pay a very small fee to stay there and were given housing and food.
-After I return I don't know what my plan will be for the summer, make my way to California maybe and establish myself there with a job and some friends before I start university.
-Go to university for the first two years then in my junior year I intend to do another exchange through my school, one where I work or volunteer in another country and still get credits for my school in the states. For this program I hope I can find one where I can teach English as a second language or something with children, otherwise I'll just take classes in another country. I'll look into my options when I have a better idea of which school I'll be going to.
-I still don't know how getting a Masters or whatever works but I'll probably go to school longer then four years.
-After I graduate I hope to work for a year or two in the U.S. with children, education or some program to help children in some way, I'm not sure with what yet.
-Then I will find a job or maybe only volunteering for a while in education, maybe teaching English as a second language in a developing country. I would really like that. I like this job because I have the opportunity to travel almost anywhere in the world and have work, because everyone needs teachers. As long as I know some of the language I can get by teaching English, this is why I want to study and learn as many languages as a can so I have even more opportunities.
-Then on goes life, obviously I don't know the exact details of how the next 50 years of my life is gonna go but I'll eventually have kids (after 30) and I'll make sure they know AT LEAST English and Italian and any other languages that I know by then.
-Hm then I want to retire and open a bakery because I think that would be really chill and interesting, maybe in Italy, but now that I've lived here for a bit I'd like to maybe go to somewhere I haven't lived but that has a good economy, maybe Norway...
Well that was a really long post, but I guess it is my life...
But please please share anything you think when you read this, I want to think big but also be realistic, so help me out here!

Love you all!
Ciao,
Kali

Protesting

So to update you all on some politics here in Italy, recently there have been major budget cuts to schools all over Italy, making students and parents furious, of course. This has resulted in less teachers and bigger classes. Some really mean person up top has also decided that school will start earlier and end later, this especially infuriates me because the new school times are one of the main reasons I had to move from my beloved art school. Now school hours are closer to those in the States, but still 6 days a week.
Because of these changes, mostly the budget cuts, students all over the country organized a strike where no student would go to school on Octobre 8, 2010. And parents back them up, agreeing that we can all not go to school because it's for a good cause. Then the ideal would be that those students would go to a protest in one of the bigger cities. However, I didn't go to a protest, to my disappointment.
This is how my day went on Friday: I woke up normal time and drove to school with my host sister, we then met up with her class where we decided who would be the ones to go into the school (only to be excused after a few minutes when there was only 3 people in class). My host sister and I were not the one's to go in, so we went back home with her cousin. We then headed to the shopping center, Auchan, did some shopping, met up with friends, and then I went to a concert that night that was sweet:)
I have decided that I don't mind these strike days if they result in days off and I look forward to more in the future!

Changin' Things Around

Ciao everyone!
I am writing to you while sitting on my couch, in my Pj's, watching the FairlyOdd Parents dubbed in Italian, on this fine overcast Wednesday morning. If you are wondering why I am not in Brindisi at school at the moment, I will tell you that it is because I have decided to change schools! Which makes me sad but I know it is the right decision.
On Sunday night I went to Brindisi with my mom, sister, youngest brother, my mother's friend and her daughter for yummy calzons. On our walk there we stopped by a performance of Pizzica which I have grown very fond of. It is a traditional Puglianese dance and I have been told is about a girl and a tarantula. It is mesmerizing and beautiful, enjoyed by young and old people from Puglia and of course the visitors. It is performed with live singers as well. I will try to put some pictures of it up.
Last night I experienced my first tropical thunder storm and it was fantastic! Nothing like Seattle storms that are just cold, dark and wet. Yesterday it was hot and humid while it rained, and the wind, the wind howled around our flat so loud, whistling like from a horror movie. I was so happy. I now know what my mom is talking about when she says how much she loves storms from the south and from the Martial Islands.

I am now about to begin reading "Amore e Psiche", which is an adorable little book with a Greek myth written about Eros, Afrodite, and Psiche in Italian. It is my self-proclaimed challenge to read this book. Wish me luck!

There will be more to write soon!
Ciao!

I have now been in Mesagne over two weeks and I can't even get close to explaining all that has happened! I am settling in with my family and getting to know them individually as well as a whole. I am happy to be with them. My host mother resembles my own mother in many ways, with her comfort, care and worries haha. I am also realizing the things that are different with these parents, things I have taken for granted at home, so that I need to prove my street smarts and that I am trustworthy to achieve some more freedom. But it will come along with my better knowledge of Italian, for good reason.
School life hasn't been as regular as it will be soon, my school is still getting it's schedule organized, therefore I sometimes have class and sometimes don't! When we don't my class stays together and chats, this is when I have made some friends and have talked (or tried) with my classmates. This is when I mostly wish I knew more Italian, because it is really challenging to make friends when I can't talk to them. But I have succeeded in making some, but they tend to be the one's who can speak some English=) I will get there eventually!
Anyhow, I have been studying Italian like crazy! Whenever I have time apart from homework I am either with my family or studying, which has definitely helped because I am learning it little by little. I didn't realize how difficult of a language it was, but with so many irregular verbs I get frustrated often with it.

Ciao for now,
Love Kali